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Center
for Recovery Philosophy and Goals
I believe that recovery is a choice, a decision that
requires a commitment to a greater awareness. According to Nathaniel
Brandon, the avoidance of consciousness or awareness is clearly evident
in problems of addiction. When we become addicted to alcohol or drugs
the intention is to ameliorate anxiety and pain –to escape
awareness of one's core feelings of powerlessness and suffering.
These unpleasant feelings are still present, but we become less aware.
To the addict, consciousness is the enemy.
Center For Recovery provides a safe, intimate setting
wherein individuals can explore their core issues. They will examine
the causes of their addiction and learn to identify and express feelings
in a healthy manner. Another area of emphasis is learning to identify
and meet your needs.
Maslov's Hierarchy of Needs lists common human needs from the
most basic to the most complex.
- survival
- safety
- touching
- attention
- mirroring
- guidance
- listening
- being real
- participating
- acceptance
- opportunity to grieve losses and to grow
- support
- loyalty and trust
- accomplishment, mastery
- transcending the ordinary
- sexuality
- enjoyment, fun
- freedom
- nurturing
- unconditional love
How many of these needs did you get met as a child?
How many are being met now?
The goal in recovery is serenity, or peace of mind.
This is the opposite of chaos. In order to achieve serenity we must
learn to accept the things we cannot change, change the things we
can, and have the wisdom to know the difference. This is a minimum
requirement. Additionally, we make choices every day that either
bring us closer to serenity or closer to chaos and self-destruction.
We need to bring greater awareness to our choices, and in doing so
we will experience higher self-esteem and feelings of empowerment.
Our goals are not just to address
issues of addiction, but to increase self awareness, self-esteem,
identify core issues, understand needs, and develop coping tools
so that you may live purposefully, experience and handle painful
feelings in a healthy way, and to begin to accept and love yourself
unconditionally. Recovery is an opportunity to recognize essential value in yourself and others.
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